my friend is really nice but when i talk to her over txt or AIM she is so bitchy towards me.
she insults me and she yells at me when i didnt even say anything offensive.
i already had a talk w. her and she said that she would stop
but today she said something offensive about my family and added a HAHA afterwards and i told her that it wasnt a funny joke.
so i stopped IMing her for a few minutes. and while i was "gone" she was like WTF?? u stopped talking to me (this was in a 10 mins time period )
so she txt me and ask why i didnt IM her back.
and i was like " has it occurred to u that i stepped away from my computer?!?!" and she said that i didnt have to be a snot about it ( did you find that snotty??) and i didnt txt her back.
and then she sent me several txt.
next one says like " wow ur so bitchy today"
and " omg! im not going to fight anymore cuz apparently ur in one of those MOODS "
yeah. i barely even spoke to her!
so how should i deal w. her tomorrow? my friend said that i should just ignore her until she misses me and treats me nicer…. but sooner or later i will have to confront her.
when i do she is going to accuse me of having a bitchy attitude when i haven’t even said anything to her.. she is the one who is always bitchy towards me.
but its so annoying because its like she has an alter ego.
super nice in person but a dragon over AIM. and txt.
WHAT SHOULD I DO?
its like im on a friggen rollercoaster ride with her!
i asked her if she was PMSing and she said no.
and this happenes ALOT!
not like once a month,
this is prob the third time in the past 30 days
maybe you should just stop IMing her and txting. tell her in person that you will give her one more chance over txt/IM but if she blows it, then just talk to her face to face ONLY!
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Well you should have told her that you found what she said offensive and see what she said back. I don’t think you should have ignored her though without saying bye because that, if your PMSing would set somebody off after you know you said something rude! I think she’s sorry but because of the hormones she can’t express it!
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maybe you should just stop IMing her and txting. tell her in person that you will give her one more chance over txt/IM but if she blows it, then just talk to her face to face ONLY!
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you need to set boundries with her, even if it costs u not bein friends 4 a week. just set out strait " listen u are not going to talk to me that wat that way" if she laughs say " if ur not takin me seriously then u can 4got being friends or u can stop talkin mean to me." dont let her interrupt u!
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You don’t need her anyone who says things about your family school or IM is not someone you wanna be around…or you can just stop talking to her on IM and only talk to her at school
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